Kids' Skills - Playful And Practical Solution-Finding With Children
Ben FurmanThe book introduces a highly effective 15-step method that shifts the focus from what a child is doing "wrong" to what they can learn to do "right." Rather than pathologizing behavior, this solution-focused approach encourages collaboration between the child, parents, and teachers to identify and cultivate specific skills—such as learning to stay calm instead of simply trying to stop tantrums. By moving away from blaming children or their parents, the method emphasizes building strengths and providing a structured, positive framework to practice and celebrate success.
Playful and practical by design, the technique utilizes humor and creativity, like choosing a "power creature," to keep children motivated and actively engaged in their own progress. While originally developed for teachers and therapists, the book is highly versatile and explicitly crafted for parents to easily apply at home. Featuring real-world case studies demonstrating its success in helping children conquer a variety of challenges, this Finnish-developed model has made a profound global impact. Originally published in English, the book has been translated into over 20 languages—including German, Chinese, Russian, Spanish, and Japanese—and is now utilized worldwide by educators, counselors, and policymakers.
